“When someone says ‘Come visit me,’ it’s more than just words it’s an open door to connection.”
Hey there, I’m glad you’re here! I’ve been in those moments where someone invites you over and you’re not quite sure what to say next. Should you sound excited? Should you play it cool? Or maybe you’re not ready, but don’t want to seem rude. Trust me, I’ve faced all those questions and that’s why I put together this helpful little guide for you.
This isn’t some boring list of replies. It’s full of real, human responses that are easy to say, kind, and even a little flirty when needed. Whether it’s a friend, crush, or someone unexpected, these ideas will help you reply with confidence and warmth.
In this article, you’ll find the best and most thoughtful ways to respond when someone says “Come visit me.” Let’s make your replies feel natural, fun, and just right for the moment.
1. “I’d love to! When would be a good time for you?”
Story: Emma and Jake have been chatting online for a while. Jake finally says, “Come visit me sometime!” Emma responds warmly.
When to Use: When you’re genuinely interested and free to visit.
When Not to Use: If you’re unsure about visiting or have no plans to make the trip.
Example: Jake: “You should come visit me this summer.” Emma: “I’d love to! When would be a good time for you?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Be positive and ask for their preferred time. It shows interest and keeps the conversation moving forward.
2. “That sounds great! Let’s pick a date.”
Story: Sarah misses her best friend Leo, who now lives in another city. He says, “Come visit me soon!” She jumps at the chance.
When to Use: When you’re free and eager to lock in plans.
When Not to Use: If your schedule is uncertain.
Example: Leo: “I miss you. Come visit me next weekend.” Sarah: “That sounds great! Let’s pick a date.”
How to Respond 🗣️ Express excitement and suggest working together on the timing.
3. “I’d really like to, but my schedule is tight right now. Can we plan for another time?”
Story: Tom’s coworker Lily invites him to her beach house. Tom is swamped with deadlines.
When to Use: When you’re interested but currently too busy.
When Not to Use: If you’re not interested in going at all.
Example: Lily: “Come visit me this weekend!” Tom: “I’d really like to, but my schedule is tight right now. Can we plan for another time?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Be honest and express future interest. It keeps the door open.
4. “I’d love to come! Can you send me some more details?”
Story: Ava is curious about James’s town. He invites her over, and she’s ready to know more.
When to Use: When you’re interested and need more info before committing.
When Not to Use: If you’re already familiar with the details.
Example: James: “Come visit me for the weekend!” Ava: “I’d love to come! Can you send me some more details?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Show excitement and politely request the necessary information.
5. “I’m so glad you invited me! I’ll check my calendar and get back to you.”
Story: Maya receives a surprise invitation from her cousin Liam to visit for a family gathering.
When to Use: When you appreciate the invite but need to confirm your availability.
When Not to Use: If you already know you’re unavailable.
Example: Liam: “Come visit next weekend!” Maya: “I’m so glad you invited me! I’ll check my calendar and get back to you.”
How to Respond 🗣️ Thank them and be courteous about needing time to decide.
6. “I’d love to, but I’m currently tied up with work. How about later?”
Story: Daniel wants Clara to visit him in New York, but Clara just started a new job.
When to Use: When work or obligations are keeping you from accepting now.
When Not to Use: If you have flexibility and are ready to visit.
Example: Daniel: “Come visit me soon.” Clara: “I’d love to, but I’m currently tied up with work. How about later?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Be clear about your current situation and show interest in future plans.
7. “Sounds fun! Do you have any specific dates in mind?”
Story: Michael invites his friend Zoe to visit during his summer break.
When to Use: When you’re open but want to know the exact plan.
When Not to Use: If you need more time before considering any date.
Example: Michael: “You should come down to my place.” Zoe: “Sounds fun! Do you have any specific dates in mind?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Keep the vibe fun while helping them narrow down a date.
8. “I’m so excited about the idea! Can you tell me more about what you have in mind?”
Story: Nina wants to visit her friend Jacob but isn’t sure what the trip will involve.
When to Use: When you want details to help you prepare.
When Not to Use: If you already know the plan or itinerary.
Example: Jacob: “Come visit this weekend!” Nina: “I’m so excited about the idea! Can you tell me more about what you have in mind?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Be enthusiastic and request specifics to show interest.
9. “I appreciate the invite! Let me see if I can make it work with my plans.”
Story: Olivia receives an unexpected invite from her college friend Ben.
When to Use: When you’re unsure but want to check your schedule.
When Not to Use: If you know you won’t be able to go.
Example: Ben: “Come visit during the holidays!” Olivia: “I appreciate the invite! Let me see if I can make it work with my plans.”
How to Respond 🗣️ Stay polite and leave room for checking your commitments.
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10. “I’d love to visit, but I have some prior commitments. Can we plan for another time?”
Story: Lucas wants to invite his cousin Emma to a party, but she already has weekend plans.
When to Use: When you’re interested but need to reschedule.
When Not to Use: If you’re declining permanently.
Example: Lucas: “You should come visit this Saturday.” Emma: “I’d love to visit, but I have some prior commitments. Can we plan for another time?”
How to Respond 🗣️ Let them know you’re interested while offering a future option.
11. “That sounds wonderful! I’ll check my schedule and let you know.”
Story: Emma invited Jack over for a weekend brunch at her new place, but Jack already had a few things planned.
When to Use: Perfect when you’re interested but unsure of your current availability.
When Not to Use: Avoid using it if you’re not genuinely interested in visiting.
Example: Jack: “That sounds wonderful! I’ll check my schedule and let you know.” Emma: “Great! Just let me know what works.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Thanks for the invite, I really appreciate it. Let me sort out my calendar and get back to you.”
12. “I’m interested in visiting! Can you give me an idea of what the visit would involve?”
Story: Sarah wanted to visit her cousin Alex in the city but wasn’t sure what they’d be doing.
When to Use: Ideal when you need more details before confirming the visit.
When Not to Use: Don’t use it if you’re okay with being spontaneous.
Example: Sarah: “I’m interested in visiting! Can you give me an idea of what the visit would involve?” Alex: “Sure! I’m planning a short hiking trip and a dinner out.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “That sounds exciting! Knowing the plan helps me prepare better.”
13. “I’m really looking forward to it! What dates are you thinking about?”
Story: Liam was thrilled to be invited by his friend Olivia but wanted to lock down a date soon.
When to Use: Use this when you’re committed and ready to plan specifics.
When Not to Use: Avoid if your schedule is too uncertain to propose dates.
Example: Liam: “I’m really looking forward to it! What dates are you thinking about?” Olivia: “How about next weekend or the week after?”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’m free next weekend! Let’s go with that.”
14. “I’d love to come, but I’m currently out of town. Can we schedule for later?”
Story: Priya got a sweet invitation from her aunt Tina but was on a business trip.
When to Use: Great for postponing without declining.
When Not to Use: Don’t use it if you’re unsure about rescheduling.
Example: Priya: “I’d love to come, but I’m currently out of town. Can we schedule for later?” Tina: “Of course! Let me know when you’re back.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’m out for a bit, but I’ll reach out as soon as I return.”
15. “That’s such a nice offer! Let me look at my calendar and get back to you.”
Story: Ethan was touched when Lily invited him for a movie night but needed to check for conflicts.
When to Use: Useful when your availability depends on upcoming tasks.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you already know you won’t make it.
Example: Ethan: “That’s such a nice offer! Let me look at my calendar and get back to you.” Lily: “Take your time! Just let me know.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I appreciate the invite! I’ll confirm once I’ve checked my week.”
16. “I’m excited about the visit! Can you tell me more about what we’ll do?”
Story: Zoe was invited by her friend Brian but wanted a clearer idea of the activities.
When to Use: Best when you want to know more before saying yes.
When Not to Use: Don’t use if you’re okay with going with the flow.
Example: Zoe: “I’m excited about the visit! Can you tell me more about what we’ll do?” Brian: “Absolutely! I have tickets for a concert and a museum tour.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “That sounds amazing! I’m totally in.”
17. “That sounds fantastic! I’ll have to check my commitments first.”
Story: Noah was excited about Maya’s birthday dinner invite but needed to check work commitments.
When to Use: Use when you’re interested but need to confirm availability.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you’re likely to forget to follow up.
Example: Noah: “That sounds fantastic! I’ll have to check my commitments first.” Maya: “Sure, just let me know soon!”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Let me confirm a few things and I’ll get back to you today.”
18. “I’d love to, but I’m in the middle of a busy period. Can we plan for another time?”
Story: Julia was in a work crunch when Max invited her to his cabin.
When to Use: Ideal for expressing interest while requesting a delay.
When Not to Use: Not for times when you’re unsure about future availability.
Example: Julia: “I’d love to, but I’m in the middle of a busy period. Can we plan for another time?” Max: “Absolutely! Let’s touch base next month.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Thanks for understanding—I’m swamped right now but I do want to come.”
19. “That would be great! Can you suggest some dates that work for you?”
Story: Daniel was open to visiting Alice but wanted her to pick a date.
When to Use: Best when you’re ready to plan but need their input.
When Not to Use: Don’t say this if your own schedule is still unclear.
Example: Daniel: “That would be great! Can you suggest some dates that work for you?” Alice: “Sure! How about the second weekend of next month?”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Perfect! I’ll pencil that in and confirm shortly.”
20. “I’m interested in coming, but I need to check my travel plans first.”
Story: Ayaan got invited by Nora while he was sorting out travel details for another trip.
When to Use: Good when other travel is pending.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you already know you’re unavailable.
Example: Ayaan: “I’m interested in coming, but I need to check my travel plans first.” Nora: “Sure thing, let me know what works.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’ve got a few things to arrange but I’ll follow up as soon as I know.”
21. “I’d love to visit! Can you let me know what dates are best for you?”
Story: Ivy was eager to see her best friend Leo but wanted to work around his schedule.
When to Use: Use this when you want to visit but value their availability.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you’re unwilling to adjust your own plans.
Example: Ivy: “I’d love to visit! Can you let me know what dates are best for you?” Leo: “Let’s aim for the second weekend of the month.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Sounds great! I’ll make it work.”
22. “That’s so kind of you! Let me check my schedule and get back to you soon.”
Story: Ava was invited to a cozy dinner party by her cousin Ryan but had another event that week.
When to Use: Works well for kind invitations with minor scheduling conflicts.
When Not to Use: Don’t say it if you know you’ll decline later.
Example: Ava: “That’s so kind of you! Let me check my schedule and get back to you soon.” Ryan: “No worries! Just text me when you know.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Thanks again, I’ll reach out once I check on that other plan.”
23. “I’d really like to visit, but I’m currently out of town. How about we plan for next month?”
Story: Oliver was overseas when his friend Mia asked him to come for a weekend barbecue.
When to Use: Good for proposing a new date when unavailable now.
When Not to Use: Don’t use if you’re unsure about your future travel.
Example: Oliver: “I’d really like to visit, but I’m currently out of town. How about we plan for next month?” Mia: “That works! Let’s stay in touch.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Let’s lock it in once I’m back. Looking forward to it.”
24. “That sounds lovely! Can you give me a bit more information about your place?”
Story: Sophia was excited to visit her friend Liam but wanted to know more about where she’d be staying.
When to Use: Best when you need more clarity or comfort before visiting.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you already know the location well.
Example: Sophia: “That sounds lovely! Can you give me a bit more information about your place?” Liam: “Of course! It’s a two-bedroom flat near the park.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Thanks! That helps me plan better.”
25. “I’d love to, but I’m dealing with some personal matters. Can we touch base later?”
Story: Jacob was going through a tough time when Ella reached out with an invitation.
When to Use: Ideal for pausing plans due to emotional or personal reasons.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you feel ready to say yes or no now.
Example: Jacob: “I’d love to, but I’m dealing with some personal matters. Can we touch base later?” Ella: “Of course, take your time.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Thanks for understanding—I appreciate it.”
26. “I’m excited about the idea! Can you suggest a few dates that work for you?”
Story: Chloe got invited by Marcus but wanted him to pick a convenient time.
When to Use: Perfect when you want to be flexible.
When Not to Use: Don’t use if you have only one narrow window.
Example: Chloe: “I’m excited about the idea! Can you suggest a few dates that work for you?” Marcus: “Let’s look at the third or fourth week of the month.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’ll check those dates and confirm soon.”
27. “I’m definitely interested, but I need to check my work schedule first.”
Story: Natalie was balancing project deadlines when Ethan invited her over.
When to Use: Best when work commitments are pending.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you’re already booked solid.
Example: Natalie: “I’m definitely interested, but I need to check my work schedule first.” Ethan: “No problem, let me know what you find.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’ll check with my manager and let you know.”
28. “That sounds wonderful! I’ll need to figure out the best time to come.”
Story: Ben was excited about Lily’s offer but needed to plan ahead.
When to Use: Great for flexible planning.
When Not to Use: Not useful if you’re ready to confirm right away.
Example: Ben: “That sounds wonderful! I’ll need to figure out the best time to come.” Lily: “Sure, take your time!”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’ll review my plans this week and circle back.”
29. “I’d love to visit! Can you let me know what activities or plans you have in mind?”
Story: Hannah was curious about what her friend Noah had planned.
When to Use: Ideal when you want to be prepared.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you’re okay with a surprise plan.
Example: Hannah: “I’d love to visit! Can you let me know what activities or plans you have in mind?” Noah: “Definitely! I’ve booked a boat tour and a cooking class.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Awesome! That sounds like a lot of fun.”
30. “I’m thrilled about the idea! Let me check my calendar and get back to you.”
Story: Lucas was excited to visit Harper but had to check for overlapping commitments.
When to Use: Use when you’re interested but unsure of schedule.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you don’t plan to follow up.
Example: Lucas: “I’m thrilled about the idea! Let me check my calendar and get back to you.” Harper: “Can’t wait! Let me know what works.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’ll check everything tonight and update you by tomorrow.”
31. “I’d really enjoy that! Just need to sort a few things out first.”
Story: Lily invited Tom to her weekend art show. Tom was excited but had some errands to manage first.
When to Use: Best when you’re genuinely interested but need to handle a few things before confirming.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you don’t plan to follow up.
Example: Tom: “I’d really enjoy that! Just need to sort a few things out first.” Lily: “No problem, just let me know when you’re ready.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Once I clear a couple of things, I’ll get back to you with a firm date.”
32. “Thank you for the invite! I’ll see if I can make it work.”
Story: Mia invited her old friend Jay to stay for a long weekend. Jay needed to check if his team needed him that weekend.
When to Use: Good when you’re willing but unsure about work or family commitments.
When Not to Use: Don’t say this if you already know you won’t go.
Example: Jay: “Thank you for the invite! I’ll see if I can make it work.” Mia: “Sure! I hope you can.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Let me go over my work schedule and I’ll let you know soon.”
33. “That means a lot! Let me take a look at my availability.”
Story: Ava was invited by her friend Aaron to a small reunion and felt touched.
When to Use: Great when you feel appreciated and want to make it work.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you already have conflicts you can’t move.
Example: Ava: “That means a lot! Let me take a look at my availability.” Aaron: “Take your time. It would be great to catch up.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “I’ll try to make it work and get back to you by tomorrow.”
34. “I’d be happy to! Let’s figure out the details together.”
Story: Henry received an open invitation from his friend Nora, and he wanted to coordinate the best time.
When to Use: Use when you want to show interest and plan together.
When Not to Use: Avoid if you’re waiting for them to decide everything.
Example: Henry: “I’d be happy to! Let’s figure out the details together.” Nora: “Yes! Let’s look at some dates.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Do you have any weekends in mind? I can adjust from my side too.”
35. “Sounds like a fun idea! I just need to coordinate with my family.”
Story: Bella wanted to visit her friend Kai but had to check in with her siblings about their weekend plans.
When to Use: Ideal when your visit depends on others’ schedules.
When Not to Use: Don’t use it if you’re free and can confirm instantly.
Example: Bella: “Sounds like a fun idea! I just need to coordinate with my family.” Kai: “Absolutely, no rush.”
How to Respond 🗣️ “Let me speak to them today and then I’ll let you know.”
Top 15 Editor’s Choice Response
- “I’d love to—your place always feels like home.”
- “Say no more, I’m already halfway packed!”
- “Only if you promise me snacks and stories.”
- “How can I say no to such a tempting invite?”
- “I’ve been waiting for you to say that!”
- “Let me check flights—I’m serious.”
- “You just made my day, I’ll be there soon!”
- “I’ll visit if you cook my favorite dish!”
- “Honestly, I need a break—perfect timing.”
- “Drop the location and keep the door unlocked.”
- “This invite comes with hugs, right?”
- “Don’t tease me—I might actually show up!”
- “If only teleportation was a thing!”
- “Give me a time and I’m there.”
- “I’m holding you to that invite—get ready!”
Conclusion
At the end of the day, how you respond to “Come visit me” says a lot about your vibe, your mood, and your relationship with that person. When you’re feeling excited, unsure, playful, or polite, having the right words helps you keep the conversation smooth and meaningful.
I hope these responses gave you some fresh ideas and made things easier for those tricky moments. Remember, the best replies come from a place of honesty with a little charm, of course.
So next time someone says “Come visit me,” you’ll be ready with the perfect words no awkward pause needed.
I’m Lily Hart, the Admin behind the engaging responses at SayStyles.com! With a knack for blending wit and warmth, I turn every piece of writing into something memorable. From clever advice to fun comebacks, I’m here to make sure every response leaves you smiling and thinking.
